Upoma Kabir, Shoilee Kabir and Mitra Kabir are not just sisters they’re also teachers at the Department of Computer Science and Engineering at Dhaka University. But their story starts much earlier, right within the walls of that same university where they now teach. Their father, Ahmad Kabir, was a professor of Bengali at Dhaka University and their mother, Nilufar Begum, taught literature at Dhaka City College.
Growing up in this academic environment, their home was filled with books, discussions and open conversations. It wasn’t just a place to live it was a space where thinking freely and asking questions were encouraged. Scholars often visited and the atmosphere was always full of learning and inspiration.
Even though their parents were both from the field of literature, the three sisters chose to study science. And instead of resistance, they received full support. Their father believed that the future was in science, while their mother valued the importance of adapting to modern education. Together, their encouragement allowed the girls to follow their interests without hesitation.
Mitra, the youngest, had many talents. She wasn’t just good at science and math; she was also a trained singer at Chhayanaut. Her love for both music and numbers gave her a unique and creative outlook.
All three sisters had chances to attend top institutions like medical colleges or BUET. But they chose to stay at Dhaka University.
Why? Because they loved its open-minded culture and the freedom to grow not just academically, but as individuals. For them, university was not just about degrees it was about becoming who they truly were.
Interestingly, even though engineering is still seen as a male-dominated field in many places, these three never felt out of place. In their home, nobody ever asked, “Why engineering?” Instead, their family trusted their decisions. They were free to roam the campus, sing out loud, and invite friends over all without fear or judgment. That kind of freedom gave them the courage to make bold life choices.
Their paths didn’t always move together. At times, one or two of them were abroad for higher studies. But there was one special moment when all six family members the three sisters, their father and their two husbands went together to vote in the university teachers’ association election. It was a proud and emotional moment for the whole family.
Now, as teachers, they see their work not just as a job, but as a way to build the future of the country. They hope the next generation will also choose careers based on passion and talent not just tradition or pressure.
This story reminds us that career success doesn’t come from following trends or pleasing others it comes from knowing yourself and being supported in your choices. The Kabir sisters followed their interests, even when it meant stepping away from expectations. Their journey shows that with the right environment where curiosity is encouraged and independence is respected anyone can build a meaningful and impactful career.
